Telling?
#We are on a small vacation. At this resort, one of the service staff asked my son where he is from. Without batting an eyelid, he said “America”.
I was a bit stunned, actually. We have not told our kids about our decision to move back, so it is not like he had a hint at all.
This does reinforce our hunch that the kids are not settled here at all, and are reacting negatively in their own ways (being more cranky, being different in behavior than they were, etc.).
Again, just wow at what happened.